Here’s the thing: once your write and publish a book these days, for some length of time, if you’re like me, you become fixated by Amazon.com. Yikes – what number is my book today? Today, at this moment, I’m #9 in women’s studies, #18 in marketing and 68 in women in business. But, by the time you look, it will have changed.
That’s the constant today, right? Change. Might as well embrace it and try not to get fixated on things you can’t control! Yes, I’m working on learning that lesson every day!
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Real You: The F.A.C.T.S. of embracing change
Friday, September 11th, 2009
Just last month, my family packed up and headed West, a move we’re calling an “adventure”, although my youngest son says he’s tired of that phrase. We’ve rented a house at the beach for a year – leaving a life-long life for most of us in Columbus, Ohio. Were we all nervous as we drove across the country wagon-train style, Oreo the mutt included?
Sure. Is it still different, strange, exciting, beautiful, and surreal? Yep.
Before I left for the “adventure” one of my best friends gave me an anagram she created when her family moved to South America for a year. I realize Southern California isn’t a foreign country – but when you’ve arrived from the heartland, some things are very different. So, whether you’re facing change in your business, or in your life in general, perhaps these FACTS can help you, too!
F for flexibility, both mentally and emotionally, to go where the culture takes you
A for adventurous – take chances. Try new foods, new ways of doing things.
C for calm and courteous. Listen and learn.
T tolereance . Not only accept the differences, embrace them.
S for sensitivity. Develop the consciousness and awareness to live with contentment in new circumstances.
Just the FACTS, ma’am!
Real You: Change
Tuesday, August 4th, 2009All of us in small businesses across America are waiting for it. The change that lets you know it really is the bottom, that tomorrow really will be brighter. Whether it’s a florist who moved into new space just before the recession hit, or the high-end hair stylist who’s best clients cannot afford her services now, or the frame store owner who can now go days without a customer walking in – we are all waiting.
In most posts, I write about accepting change, embracing it and making your dreams come true through entrepreneurship. And that type of active change still applies. But if you, like many of us, are waiting for the economy to change – the passive change – well, that seems even harder to embrace.
Remember, though, you are not alone. Walk outside your store and talk to the retailer down the street. If you’re running a home-based business, pick up the telephone and call someone else who is in the same boat – or boat-making business, perhaps. Passively waiting for change, for “things” to “get better” is tough. Going it alone is awful.
We’ve all learned lessons through these times we are in. We’ve learned how strong we are, we’ve learned what matters, and we’ve learned, most assuredly, that we cannot control the rate of change in anything, or in anyone, but ourselves.
So try to relax. Change what you can, and in the meantime, reach out. We are all in this together.
